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1. I believe it's impossible for an influencer that earns money through affiliate links, paid ads, and gifted items to be 100% authentic. Because they earn their living through these channels, the more they can maximize their earnings through sharing higher value items, trendy items, or sponsored items, the better for their income. I'm not saying that influencers shouldn't be able to earn a living, but we need to do a better job of being aware of this. I made the decision recently (inspired by TotallyRec) to make my substack free from affiliate links, paid ads, or gifted items because I felt like I couldn't be authentic with my recommendations if incentivized by these things.

2. I've asked this question about "middle tier" brands before as well - I think Sezane does fit that bucket well and so do brands like Reformation and Madewell. I do wish there were more options though!

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This was !!!! You literally wrote some of the thoughts that rotate through my brain when I scroll Instagram these days, not to mention a lot of the reasons I left my old styling job. So much of influencing (can be, not all the time) smoke and mirrors and its (often) discouraging to see a largely unattainable lifestyle being sold to twenty- somethings -- when I first downloaded TikTok and had yet to tweak my algorithm, it was flooded with 25 year olds crying/screaming/lusting over Birkin bags...all for the clout of being able to flaunt the ability to "afford" one and be in this elite club that's all an illusion?

I had a styling client who was very (very, very, very) wealthy and demanded to only wear plain black Balmain t-shirts (as undershirts) that cost $750 a piece. The way....they looked... like Hanes t-shirts that cost $30 for a 3 pack... that's how I (personally) feel about 98% of what The Row has to offer.

"What do we do as we watch prices for the “must have item” grow out of our reach and the product that is within reach falls apart after one wear?" - I think another point here is that just because something is designer does not mean its well made! Like The Row jelly sandals which are sold out everywhere, reselling for 1.5x the cost, and have been snapping/falling apart on most people. I used to personal shop for clients and the amount of things that looked great online yet showed up feeling "cheap", or were damaged/poorly made - it's not all good!

Obviously this is why I buy mostly secondhand - but as to where to go for the basic closet essentials that are ideal to buy new? I have no idea. I worked at Madewell for far too long and the quality just isn't there for what the mark-up is most of the time!

Lots of food for thought!

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